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Are You Seeing the Same Reality as Everyone Else?

Good morning.
It’s the start of a new week, and before the day picks up speed, it might be worth asking a deeper question about how we see the world around us.
Today, we’re looking at something fundamental:
Perception isn’t passive. The brain filters what we see, remember, and believe. And without realizing it, we often treat those interpretations as the full picture.
Are You Seeing the Same Reality as Everyone Else?
Your brain doesn’t record reality. It builds it.
We like to think we’re seeing things as they are. That our version of events is what we notice, what we remember, what we react to, is grounded in fact. But perception doesn’t work that way. What we see is shaped long before we become aware of it.
What we think of as objective truth is already filtered by the time we notice it. Light enters the eyes, sound hits the ears, but the brain decides what to keep. It predicts. It fills in gaps. It edits. All before we’re aware.
This is how perception works. It’s not passive. It’s constructed. It’s shaped by systems like selective attention and predictive coding. The brain constantly tries to make sense of the world using shortcuts. It ignores what it doesn’t expect to see. It highlights what confirms what it already believes. It simplifies what’s too complex to process in real time.
That’s how the brain reduces effort. That’s how it keeps things moving without getting overwhelmed.
But it also means that two people in the same room can have completely different experiences. It means memory, which is shaped through reconstruction rather than perfect recall, can feel accurate while still missing key parts. It means we’re often reacting not to what’s happening, but to what we think is happening.
That’s the perception filter. And it’s always running.
It shapes how we interpret others. How we tell stories about ourselves. How we make decisions, recall events, and assign meaning. And unless we pause to question it, we tend to accept those filtered reactions as truth, simply because they feel real.
And that shapes how we respond. So what do you do with that?
You start by remembering that what you see isn’t the full picture. That what you remember might not be the whole truth. That the reaction you're having might not be about now. It might be your brain filling in the blanks.
None of this makes perception unreliable. It just makes it active. And anything active can be examined.
When we understand how we filter the world, we don’t just sharpen awareness. We gain the ability to respond with more perspective, to others, to ourselves, and to what we believe is true. That’s not just clarity. It’s cognitive flexibility.
The more we understand how we see, the more choice we have in what we do next.
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