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Can You Have More Than One BFF? Let’s Talk About It.

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Can You Have More Than One BFF? Let’s Talk About It.

We all grew up hearing the term "BFF" as if it only applied to one special person—your ultimate ride-or-die, the Thelma to your Louise, the peanut butter to your jelly. But as we grow older and our social circles expand, you might find yourself wondering: Is it okay to have more than one BFF?

Spoiler alert: Absolutely, yes.

What Is a BFF, Anyway?

At its core, a BFF (Best Friend Forever) is someone who gets you on a level that goes beyond surface stuff. They’re the person you can call when you’re having the worst day ever or when you just need to laugh about something totally random. Traditionally, we’ve been led to believe that you can only have one of these people—like a soulmate but in friendship form.

But who made that rule?

Friendship Is Not One-Size-Fits-All

The reality is, friendships are like jeans—there isn’t a one-size-fits-all. Different friends serve different roles in your life, and that’s not only normal but healthy. You might have a BFF for those late-night deep talks, another for spontaneous road trips, and yet another for binge-watching your favorite Netflix shows. Each friendship can feel like a “best” in its own way, without one being better than the other.

Why Limiting Yourself to One BFF Can Feel Restrictive

Friendship isn’t a competition, and labeling only one person as your “best” can feel limiting. When you think about it, having multiple BFFs just makes sense. You’re a multi-dimensional person with different interests, emotions, and vibes—so why wouldn’t you have more than one bestie to match each part of you?

How It Works in Real Life

Let’s say you’ve got a friend who’s been there for you since childhood—someone who knows your entire life story, right down to that embarrassing middle school phase you’d rather forget. Then, you’ve got another friend you met later in life who just gets your adult self, from career ambitions to current relationship dramas. Both friendships can be equally important without taking away from the other.

In fact, having multiple BFFs can make your life even richer. You have a wider support system, more people to share different experiences with, and let’s face it—more fun.

Do BFFs Get Jealous?

Sometimes, yes. Just like any relationship, friendships can come with feelings of jealousy or insecurity. One friend might feel left out if they see you getting close with another. But the beauty of having more than one BFF is that it gives you a chance to grow those relationships by being honest and open. A quick conversation can usually clear up any misunderstandings.

The Takeaway: It’s All About Connection

The real magic of a BFF isn’t in the title—it’s in the connection. Whether you have one, two, or even a handful of BFFs, the important thing is that they make you feel seen, valued, and supported. Friendship is about quality, not quantity, so embrace the fact that your heart is big enough to hold space for more than one “bestie.”

So, if you’ve been feeling a little guilty about having more than one BFF, here’s your permission to stop. Friendships come in all shapes and sizes, and there’s no rule that says you can only have one. The more, the merrier!

After all, who couldn’t use a few extra BFFs in their corner?

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