Happy Monday morning! Here’s some motivation to jumpstart your week: Progress is progress, no matter how small—keep moving forward! Have a great week!

Breaking the Cycle: How to Overcome Self-Sabotage and Build Lasting Success

Have you ever set a goal for yourself—maybe something big like starting a new fitness routine, working on a passion project, or even just getting more organized—and then found yourself not following through? You had every intention of sticking to it, but somewhere along the way, you hit a wall. Maybe you got distracted, doubted your ability, or put it off for “tomorrow” (which somehow never arrived). Sound familiar?

That, my friend, is self-sabotage in action. It happens to the best of us. We have these dreams and ambitions, but sometimes, without even realizing it, we end up being our own worst enemy. But here’s the good news: You can break that cycle and start building habits that lead to lasting success. It all starts with awareness and some small but powerful mindset shifts.

1. Recognize the Signs

Self-sabotage often sneaks in when you least expect it. Maybe you keep procrastinating on that important task, or you’re constantly tweaking something because it’s “not perfect yet.” Or perhaps you start doubting yourself, thinking, “Can I really do this?” These behaviors might seem harmless in the moment, but over time, they keep you stuck in place.

So, the first step? Recognize when it’s happening. Notice the patterns—whether it’s procrastination, perfectionism, or fear of failure—that tend to creep in when you're about to make progress.

2. Challenge the Inner Critic

That little voice inside your head that whispers, “You’re not good enough” or “You’ll never pull this off” is not your friend. It’s a voice built out of fear and insecurity, and it loves to pop up when you’re about to step outside your comfort zone.

Next time you hear it, don’t let it take the driver’s seat. Challenge it. Ask yourself, “What if I can do this? What if things go right?” Shifting from negative self-talk to positive affirmations can make all the difference in how you show up for yourself.

3. Take Imperfect Action

Perfectionism is a major culprit of self-sabotage. You tell yourself you’ll start when you’ve planned everything perfectly, or that you’ll launch that idea when it’s flawless. But the reality is, perfection is an illusion, and waiting for it will keep you from making any real progress.

Instead, focus on taking imperfect action. Start now, and allow yourself the grace to grow and improve along the way. Progress is better than perfection, and momentum builds success.

4. Get Comfortable with Discomfort

Growth happens outside your comfort zone. But that means sometimes you have to do things that feel a little uncomfortable. Whether it’s having a tough conversation, taking on a new challenge, or pushing past your usual limits, the discomfort is a sign you’re stretching yourself.

Rather than avoiding it, learn to embrace the feeling. It’s a signal that you’re stepping into new territory and moving closer to the person you want to become.

5. Build Accountability

One of the best ways to overcome self-sabotage is to create systems of accountability. Share your goals with a trusted friend, mentor, or community, and ask them to check in on your progress. Knowing that someone else is rooting for you (and expecting updates!) can help keep you motivated and on track.

6. Celebrate the Small Wins

Finally, don’t forget to celebrate the small wins. It’s easy to get caught up in what you haven’t done yet, but each step forward—no matter how small—is progress. Take time to acknowledge your efforts and reward yourself along the way. It’ll keep your motivation high and remind you that every little action brings you closer to success.

Remember, overcoming self-sabotage is a process. It’s not about being perfect or nailing everything on the first try. It’s about showing up for yourself, even when it’s hard, and breaking those old patterns that no longer serve you. Little by little, you’ll start to build habits that stick, and before you know it, you’ll be well on your way to creating the lasting success you deserve.

This is how we live our Worthyest life.

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Good News

Welcome to Good News, your daily dose of positivity! With so much happening around us, we're here to remind you of the uplifting, inspiring stories that make life a little brighter. From small acts of kindness to incredible achievements, let's take a moment to celebrate the good that's happening all around us.

In a small Missouri town, when it came time to choose a name for a beloved school building, the community knew it had to honor someone truly remarkable. With countless figures, both local and national, to consider, the final choice was a bit unexpected—but one that deeply reflects the heart of the school. Sometimes, the most inspiring heroes aren’t the ones in the spotlight, but those who quietly dedicate themselves to making a difference every day.

Missouri elementary school names building after beloved custodian

Daily Brain Charge: Personal Growth

Replace "I have to" with "I get to."

It’s a small shift, but it changes your mindset from obligation to opportunity. Instead of feeling burdened by tasks, you’ll start to see them as chances to grow, learn, and improve. Try it today and notice how it transforms your attitude!

Health & Wellness

Wellness is always evolving, with new trends shaping how we approach health and balance. From innovative treatments to the latest in mindfulness and nutrition, staying informed on trending wellness news helps you make better choices for your well-being. Today, we’re highlighting what’s making waves in the wellness world.

• Young Adults With Colon Cancer May Be Hit by More Aggressive Disease

• Beans Are a Superfood, a New Analysis Confirms

• Don’t fall for fake dentists offering veneers and other dental work on social media

Technology

With the digital landscape constantly evolving, keeping up with the latest trends can feel like a full-time job. But don’t worry—we’ve got you covered. From breakthrough gadgets to the newest apps and digital shifts that are shaping our everyday lives, this section is your go-to guide for staying in the know. Whether you're a tech enthusiast or just trying to keep up with what’s new, we'll break down the trends making waves right now—no tech degree required.

• Is it safe to share biometric data? Tech expert weighs in

• October is Cybersecurity Awareness Month. Here’s how to stay safe from scams

• Back to the Future: Retro Tech takes over 2024

31 Days of Halloween

Day 20: Haunted Escape Room at Home

Transform your living space into a spooky escape room experience! Create puzzles, hidden clues, and eerie challenges that players must solve to "escape" the haunted setting. You can base the theme around a ghostly manor, a cursed artifact, or a forgotten crypt. Use dim lighting, creepy sound effects, and creative decorations to immerse everyone in the experience. It's a fun and interactive way to get into the Halloween spirit, whether it's with family, friends, or even solo!

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