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Run Your Own Race: Who Cares What Others are Doing

Run Your Own Race: Who Cares What Others are Doing

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September 30, 2024 • Estimated Reading Time: 9 minutes

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Run Your Own Race: Why It’s Time to Stop Caring About What Others Are Doing

Picture this: You're running a marathon. You've trained hard, put in the hours, and you’re feeling ready. But as soon as the race starts, you start looking around. Who’s ahead of you? Who’s behind? Someone’s sprinting by, effortlessly gliding forward, and suddenly, you're questioning your entire pace. Sound familiar? Here's the reality: you might be running the race, but you're not really running your race.

Welcome to the paradox of life in a world where we’re always glancing at the person next to us. It’s like we’re constantly in a competition we didn’t sign up for. Today, let’s break that cycle and get back to focusing on the only thing that matters—your race.

The Trap of Comparison

It’s all too easy to fall into the comparison trap, especially with social media in the mix. You scroll through posts of people landing dream jobs, enjoying picture-perfect vacations, or effortlessly running half-marathons, while you’re just trying to find the motivation to run errands. Suddenly, your own life feels like an unfinished draft next to someone else’s polished final copy

But the reality is, you’re seeing a curated highlight reel. Everyone’s journey is unique, and what works for them might not work for you. It's not a competition. The person next to you might be sprinting, but that doesn’t mean you’re falling behind. Maybe they're in a different race altogether. Different track, different goal. And that's okay.

The Problem with Keeping Score

Think about it—how much time do we waste keeping score of things that really don’t matter? Who got promoted faster, who’s driving a better car, or whose relationship seems #goals? The problem is, the more you keep score, the less you're playing your own game.

Running someone else’s race is exhausting. You start to lose sight of your own goals and dreams because you’re too busy measuring up. You’re no longer making decisions for yourself but for the imaginary audience you think is watching and judging you. Spoiler alert: they’re not. Everyone is too busy worrying about their own journey.

Focus on Your Lane

When you stop looking over your shoulder or trying to keep up with everyone else, you’ll notice something amazing: you’re finally able to focus on what you want. Do you want to take a gap year to explore the world? Cool. Does starting a small business sound more appealing than climbing the corporate ladder? Go for it. What’s important is that the choices you make align with your own goals, values, and what makes you happy—not anyone else’s expectations.

When runners are laser-focused on their lane, they’re able to give it their all without getting distracted. The same goes for life. The more you zone in on what you’re doing, the more you’ll realize that your journey is just that—yours. And nobody else gets a say in it.

Celebrate Your Wins—Big and Small

Every race has milestones, and so does your journey. Remember, it’s not about getting to the finish line the fastest; it’s about enjoying each step along the way. Ran a mile further than last week? Celebrate that. Finished that daunting project at work? Give yourself some credit. Sometimes, your wins aren’t the loud, flashy kind—they’re small, quiet moments of progress that deserve to be acknowledged.

The irony of running your own race is that, the less you care about what everyone else is doing, the more fulfilled and satisfied you’ll be with where you’re headed. Your pace might be different, and your path might look nothing like the person next to you—but that’s what makes it yours.

Let Go of the Pressure

Think about this: even if you win someone else’s race, what does it get you? More stress, less fulfillment, and the nagging feeling that something’s missing. You don't need to prove yourself to anyone. Letting go of that pressure means you get to decide what success looks like. It might not be what your neighbor, your coworker, or even your best friend considers success—and that’s completely fine.

Life is too short to live according to someone else’s rulebook. Set your own pace. Define your own finish lines. Forget the sprinters zooming past you; for all you know, they might be heading in the wrong direction. The only person you need to beat is the one you were yesterday.

Final Thoughts: Keep Your Eyes Forward

Running your own race is about knowing yourself, trusting your path, and not letting the noise of others throw you off course. It’s about feeling proud of your progress, even when it's slow, because every step forward is still movement.

So, lace up those shoes, take a deep breath, and keep moving forward. The only race you’re running is your own, and that’s the only one that matters.

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